解决方法：
1。 改表法。可能是你的帐号不允许从远程登陆，只能在localhost。这个时候只要在localhost的那台电脑，登入mysql后，更改 "mysql" 数据库里的 "user" 表里的 "host" 项，从"localhost"改称"%"

mysql -u root -pvmware

mysql>use mysql;

mysql>update user set host = '%' where user = 'root';mysql>select host, user from user;

2. 授权法。例如，你想myuser使用mypassword从任何主机连接到mysql服务器的话。

GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON *.* TO 'myuser'@'%' IDENTIFIED BY 'mypassword' WITH GRANT OPTION;
如果你想允许用户myuser从ip为192.168.1.3的主机连接到mysql服务器，并使用mypassword作为密码

GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON *.* TO 'root'@'192.168.1.3' IDENTIFIED BY 'mypassword' WITH GRANT OPTION;

GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON *.* TO 'root'@'10.10.40.54' IDENTIFIED BY '' WITH GRANT OPTION;